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This is hard for me to write. Today my Uncle Richard, after a hard bout with dementia, passed away at the age of 74. He and my aunt had just made it to 50 years married. My aunt had to have him in a home because it was just impossible for her to adequately take care of him. He was my dad's youngest brother, and even though he was a generation up from me, my uncle was only 7 years older than me, and I felt that we kind of grew up together. When I was growing up I didn't know anybody else who had an uncle who was practically their age, and when I was handed down one of his shirts I just thought that was the coolest thing. We had many years of fishing and hunting together, both up in Canada and on his farm. So if it looks like I am absent for a little bit, it will be because we are gathering together to remember his life.
 
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My father died of Alzheimer's at 82. He had it for seven years. The last four years he did not know who I was. He always knew my mother. Although he didn't know me, I knew him and that was enough. I miss him very much. I am also happy that filthy disease no longer has him in its grip. As a Christian, I believe he is in a much better place. His leaving made this a less better place. Prayers for you and your family.
 
Gold dollar my prayers for you and your family are up and away.I have lost the whole generation of uncles and aunts plus my dad that preceded me .We have just had our first frost and it put me in mind of rabbit hunting as a kid with my grandad ,uncles and dad . RIP to all good men who helped shape a kids life .Maybe gone but not forgotten.
 
You have our prayers and support, Gold Dollar, at this time of sadness and remembrance. Your uncle sounds like a wonderful guy, and I'm sure you already appreciate that you walked this life together. Comfort and strength to you and yours, and the blessings of His healing to all.
 
I'm sorry for you loss my prayers are sent for you and your dad. He is now at peace I know what it's like dealing with dementia as both my parents had it till they passed.
 
I give you my sympathy. For 4 years before dad passed he didn't know me. When he was diagnosed the nurse asked him who those two men were. He said "the one on the left is my oldest son, G." She asked about me and he said "Oh, that's his brother".
On another occasion we had visited for twenty minutes when he looked at me and said "you're the one from Montana, aren't you".
Here is hoping you cherish the good times.
 
...my wife's mother suffered for eight long years...

...my wife's sister and brother apparently didn't have what it took to face it...

...so it was left to my dear wife...I helped in every way I could...but my wife bore the brunt of it...

...it was a blessing when her Mom passed at 83...
 
Prayer from Texas for your peace, comfort, and strength during this difficult time.
 
I am sorry to hear the news. I know they are in a better place.

When it came to divesting of the property...In my family I told them one thing. I get Grandads shot glass and grandma's spoon. They all looked at me as if I was nuts.

I told them my happiest memories were playing cards telling big stories and gran's spoon for potatoes that she used to feed us with.

There is no money in the world that will replace those memories. I would go to "war" for grandma's spoon. Some will understand this, others may not.

Find peace my friend and know. Best, TH
 
I just got back from the Punxsutawney, PA area. We had the funeral service and burial for my uncle Richard yesterday. He is buried among a lot of our family at the Union Hill cemetery in Rossiter, PA, outside of Punxsutawney, where he grew up. On behalf of the family I want to thank everybody for their prayers and kind words.
 
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