carry mode
I have trained police and citizens for 40 years in firearms. From a tactical standpoint...I teach the 2 second rule....once you have made the decision to deploy your weapon in a lethal encounter you should be able to deploy...engage the threat and fire a aimed / accurate round in two seconds.
I recommend most citizens to carry a revolver unless they have received formalized training on their particular weapon system, and are comfortable and proficient with it.
A lot of citizens who are "uncomfortable" with their pistols carry them with a empty chamber, or the decocker down ( DA/SA system) or both....making the pistol virtually impossible to deploy under duress.
GUns and kids do not mix....period....I am a grandparent with young kids in the house and I have the firearms secured where they are unaccessible.....as far as wrestling.....put the gun up & secure it.
During my professional career - I have "wrestled" several times with folks while wearing a sidearm, not to be recommended. As mentioned in previous posts, if you cannot train and be "comfortable" with your life saving tool, then perhaps you should reconsider your choice.