I have the XDs and a Shield 9. Personally, I like the Springfield better and the more I shoot it, the more I like it.
My wife, on the other hand, does not like the XDs at all. Too much snap and recoil for her. Although she finds the recoil spring on the Shield to be a *****! It is way too hard to rack for a 9 that size. Then there's that mag drop thing.
I would rather carry a 9 and I would rather carry a larger cap mag (although in NY that point is somewhat moot). However I carry a few different in both caliber often.
Without getting into the whats and whys of my preference, both have merit and shortcomings and I would trust either with my life. Truthfully at the end of the day, I prefer to carry my M&P 9c or FN P9 for performance, feel, accuracy and capacity better than either the Shield or XDs.
YMMV.
Sorry you live in NY, I lived in Buffalo, NY, I am glad I moved. I like the Shield 40 better than the XDS 45, that's my two cents. I almost bought the XDS and at the last minute I walked away. A good friend ask me go to range and he just purchased the XDS 45, he let me fire about fifty rounds through it, my thoughts, the trigger does not have a clean break and grip is terrible. I had red marks on my had after firing the 50 rounds. He shot my Shield 40 and wanted to trade, to me that says it all. I told him no, but I will probably go back and get the XDS 45, I see more ammo for 45s than the 40s or 9s.
Honestly, I moving away from 9mms and I love the 40 S&W rounds. I have a lot of 9mms and I have been thinking about selling off my 9mms, but I purchased over 7,000 SD rounds and about 5,000 practice rounds in 9mm prior to the shortage, I might wait and see what happens on this ammo shortage before selling them off or sell them on Gunbroker and buy a new house.
I would rate the Glocks with best trigger pull (3.5 lbs) and feel, Kahr PM9 and Shields 2nd, Rugers 3rd and the Walther 4th. I not sure where the XDS will fall yet.
