In the beginning the cravings are constant. They are predictable, too. First coffee, after each meal, etc. These you can prepare for. Smell that coffee and buckle up, you know it's coming. Fight it back, enjoy the cup, and prepare for round two - after your breakfast. Those are easier to see coming. What about when you start the car? Did you realize that's another "automatic" time you fire one up? How about when you're measuring a board, or reading a blueprint? These are the ones giving you the most trouble, am I right?
Recognizing when they're coming is the key to fighting them. Nothing worse than being blindsided, because by that time, you're in the middle of a nicotine fit.
Having a difference of opinion with the boss, or your Lady, or your kid? Get ready to cut them some serious slack, otherwise they can become an easy target for your temper tantrums.
Oh yeah, if you're smart - you're done drinking for awhile. Get a few snorts under your belt, you can talk yourself into damn near anything. You see I quit once before in 1991. Made it over 5 years then had a few pops and smoked "just one". Bought a CARTON on the way home and chain smoked for days. I had some making up to do! It took 13 years to get the courage to try again.
There is an upside - I quit October 22, 2009. At 1-1/2 packs per day and $6 per pack, I have saved over 12,000 dollars! 12 GRAND!
I realized that there were plenty of things I have to do because someone else tells me to. Go to work, pay taxes, drive 55-(ish). Do this, don't do that. Things out of my control that are nonetheless expected.
Now why would I willingly allow myself to be controlled by cigarettes when I could change that?
It ain't easy. You invited that monkey onto your back and he has been your best bud for a long time. Have a talk with him. He needs to know in no uncertain terms that he is no longer welcome in your life. When those cravings hit - and they may for a long time - have a chat with your monkey. He's a bully and he is persistent but he can be run out of town.
Best of luck and God Speed!
~ Alan