Hmmm - I went the opposite way. I carried a 5 shot M60 for 42 years, As time went on and I got older, the carry ammo I was using (Buffalo Bore 158 grain SWCHP-GC +P) got harder and harder to want to practice with. The recoil was a bit brisk and I made excuses not to practice with it - not good! Eventually I stepped down to the 135 grain +P Speer GDHP which was less expensive, less recoil but also less effective IMO.
One day my friend brought down his Sig P365 and I shot it - I was sold right then and there! The 124 grain Federal HST is so much easier to shoot, has no objectionable recoil, it's relatively inexpensive and the Sig P365 is more accurate, has better sights, 5 ounces lighter, holds more than twice the ammo onboard, and is actually fun to shoot. Tactical reloads are way way faster as well. Plus, the HST 124 grain bullets actually perform better than any 38 spl. I know if out of a 2" bbl. - food for thought.
As soon as Sig worked out all the kinks from their revolutionary new design, I went out and got a second generation version for myself. After shooting well over 5,500 rounds through it, I'd never go back to a 5 shot J frame.
I can understand older gentleman and ladies who have carried a J Frame resisting the new fangled plastic guns as I did, however after shooting 100 rounds through one, you would literally have to lie to yourself to not see the advantages. If you really want to stick with your J Frame Revolver, NEVER shoot a P365, Hellcat, FN, etc. lol!
BTW, up until Sig perfected the Micro 9 P365 I wasn't interested in any change of EDC either. I was not interested in a Glock "Brick", etc. However, when they put that much power in to a 17.8 ounce 11 round gun, it's hard to deny!