Nearly hit testosterone poisoning levels in this thread. 

Anyone can sneak up on anyone and commit violence ,there's no sure thing , if a cop armed with the best 10mm on his hip is in line at the deli at lunchtime any goblin with any deadly weapon can take him out. My pocket 357 j frame is my edc i have alot more stuff but I believe the 3/3/3 rule and the odds say im correct that being aware and ready able and willing is the most important thing for the average person.Jeez, Rambo, I ain’t saying go meekly into the dark night, I’m pointing out that E&E + shoot if they come at you is the best answer. My comment was mostly directed at the young man working at a drug-troubled KFC…nothing worth shooting someone over in that context except yourself.
He said “may be” the go signal, I believe. So, perhaps there’s something worth reading in his argument.
How about plain old practical, non-tactical, and more meaningful "observant" instead of the stiff-collared, classroom gunfighting theory term "situational awareness"?You saying that “defenders are behind the 8 ball and the go signal for people being after the criminal has already shot at you” is the perfect example of a gun carrier having their head up their ass, and is the definition of ZERO situational awareness. Why do you carry if you’re that unaware of people around you?
I’m pretty aware of my surroundings when I’m out and about, but given the large variety of shapes/sizes/flavors that criminals come in, I’m not at all confident in my “universal criminal detection ability.” Sure, sketchy looking hood-rat/meth-head/gang-banger types would earn some closer scrutiny and concern, but there are plenty of criminals that look just like an ordinary dude walking down the street.My mentality is different than most of you when I’m out and about. I think like a criminal because that’s what I dealt with during my career. I’m ALWAYS aware of my surroundings and will see the criminal before they see me. Therefore I don’t worry about being surprised. My ffl pickup spot is a local pawn shop, so I’m always watching the door anyway. I’ve also been in gunfights, so been there, done that. Shooting somebody that was trying to shoot at me was way easier than anybody led us to believe at the academy. Bottom line guys, if it’s them or you dead, you better be cold blooded and make sure it’s them.
I don’t know about your AO, but in mine, it’s pretty normal to see 30% or more cars that are backed into parking spots. It’s a pretty common way for people to park, and in the vast majority of situations, it’s certainly not a criminal planning a quick getaway from a robbery.The Statistics show (as was proven at this incident) that the majority of people who are killed in a robbery are those that tried to resist. I think too that once you spook the criminal they start shooting at everyone that gets in their way when they leave in a hurry.
The clerk not only succeeded in getting himself killed but also an innocent bystander as well simply because he chose money over life and decided to shoot it out. We still do not know if the bullet that killed the bystander actually came from the clerks gun or the criminals gun in a deliberate act or an accidental stray bullet from either gun that killed the bystander.
Although your chances are higher that you will be struck by lightning than be involved in a robbery by a criminal in a store the best route is not to engage in a gun battle but to take cover and only shoot it out if the criminal comes looking for you. Again highly unlikely considering the fact that the criminal wants the money and then wants to get away as soon as possible and not waste his time to go looking for other people to shoot.
Remember also that when the bullets start flying you can be sued if any innocent bystander is injured or killed in the crossfire which is highly likely in the confines of a crowded store as few stores are completely empty at any one time.
And even more strange but true is that if you succeed in wounding or killing the criminal, especially if he has only a knife his relatives can sue you for wrongful death or injury even though the criminal was clearly committing a crime at the time you shot him. You will probably win in the lawsuit but it will still cost you thousands for a lawyer and thousands more on the time off of work lost.
I might add that even Wyatt Earp and his Brothers were taken to court over the shoot out at the OK corral and that was during the days of the wild west when courts and juries were much more lenient towards Officers engaged in a shootout. If Wyatt and his brothers had not been law enforcement officers they just may have gone to prison over the shootout at the OK Corral. If the shootout had happened today in 2025 at the OK Corral the peace officers may have been sent to prison over an unjustified and/or illegal confrontation.
Some tips before going into a high crime area are always look at the cars in the parking lot. If you see a car parked backwards its a red signal that a criminal is planning a robbery and quick getaway by not having to back his car out of the parking lot.
If you see a lot of stickers plastered all over the store window blocking your view to the inside of the store be very cautious on entering the store because you will not be able to see a robbery that is now taking place and you just may walk smack dab into a robbery taking place.
And of course you must ask yourself the question "Is it really worth going into a store in the bad section of town" because the more you frequent such a store in a high crime area the higher the chances that someday you will walk in on a robbery in progress or be caught inside the store when a robbery goes down. Is looking for a "good deal" really worth getting your head blown off. We are not living in the country of even our Fathers let alone our Grandfathers, it's a different world out there today.
Again although its very unlikely you will ever be involved in such a shootout situation why take chances when you do not have to. I long ago quite going to a pawn shop in a town where once even my Grandfather and Father used to frequent and the pawn shop in question even stopped selling guns there. It's the current reality on how we are forced to live.
Most folks at my church back in to park as it makes leaving after services less likely to cause a lot get-together, but hey, I'm Methodist, so it's hard to be sure.I don’t know about your AO, but in mine, it’s pretty normal to see 30% or more cars that are backed into parking spots. It’s a pretty common way for people to park, and in the vast majority of situations, it’s certainly not a criminal planning a quick getaway from a robbery.
One of two men convicted and sentenced to death for an infamous 1980 takeover robbery and massacre inside a Los Angeles Bob’s Big Boy restaurant, in which employees and customers were herded into a freezer and shot in the back, has begun legal efforts to have his prison sentence reduced, which could allow the once-condemned prisoner to be released on parole.A robbery where you are a witness is not a gun fight. It is, you are a witness. And if they start the killing process, you are the key witness. There is no issue of protecting somebody's money, it is surviving that next 1 or 2 seconds. That's it.
For me 50+ years experience catching criminals.What’s your secret that results in you always seeing criminals before they see you?
Being sleepy, etc. I use what I am most familiar with (1911 style safeties). Also, had a friend killed in high school when he came home late and his dad unloaded on him. The safety is just an added layer of safety. Also, less likelihood of an accidental discharge in times of stress. Just my opinion. But, it's my life and how I want to protect it.I'm confused - what does having a manual safety have to do with your friend getting shot?
We had a liquor store near us that got robbed a couple of times a month: easy access and egress from the site. Two guys hit it one night and two L.A. Sheriffs responded. A total of 60 shots were fired and no one was hit except one perp was hit in the hand. They escaped over a 6 food cinder block fence and through a back yard to the next street where perp #3 had the get away car. Sheriffs got the wounded guy later at the hospital!That is unfortunate.
I think now is the time I would like to say thank you to all of our LEO's. If you are a bank clerk and you have an 'off day' at work, you might have to apologise and recount the stack of bills that a client gave you. As a cop? A bad day could get you and those around you hurt or worse.
Plenty of professionally trained people taking dirt naps . . .Professional training significantly increases your odds of success.
Some of us know how we react based on past experiences and continuing training.
They target focus on the prey. Watch a cat before the pounce. It’s the same principle. Criminals look for weakness in the prey before the attack.I’m pretty aware of my surroundings when I’m out and about, but given the large variety of shapes/sizes/flavors that criminals come in, I’m not at all confident in my “universal criminal detection ability.” Sure, sketchy looking hood-rat/meth-head/gang-banger types would earn some closer scrutiny and concern, but there are plenty of criminals that look just like an ordinary dude walking down the street.
What’s your secret that results in you always seeing criminals before they see you?
Choose wisely about what?One of two men convicted and sentenced to death for an infamous 1980 takeover robbery and massacre inside a Los Angeles Bob’s Big Boy restaurant, in which employees and customers were herded into a freezer and shot in the back, has begun legal efforts to have his prison sentence reduced, which could allow the once-condemned prisoner to be released on parole.
Choose wisely comes to mind.
They even had his name and address on some paperwork found at the jail he was sitting in.
Ya if I decided to go into a life of crime and rob people the very first thing I would buy is some nice suits,I’m pretty aware of my surroundings when I’m out and about, but given the large variety of shapes/sizes/flavors that criminals come in, I’m not at all confident in my “universal criminal detection ability.” Sure, sketchy looking hood-rat/meth-head/gang-banger types would earn some closer scrutiny and concern, but there are plenty of criminals that look just like an ordinary dude walking down the street.
What’s your secret that results in you always seeing criminals before they see you?
I was mainly addressing the following statement of the poster that I responded to:For me 50+ years experience catching criminals.
But unusual activity should stand out. Two men on bicycles looking into cars with a flashlight at 5 am are not looking for a job.
Stranger knocking on the front door at 10 am is really just checking to see if anyone is home.
I’m ALWAYS aware of my surroundings and will see the criminal before they see me.