Well, being a grandpa, I kind of take offense at those who say we were or might have been bad guys. Its just as likely or maybe even more so the grand kid is worthless and into electronic toys or drugs. We have different feelings about stuff. I collect things and pretty much consider the money I pay to be an expense. If my heirs don't want it, they can trash it or give it away to the bums (homeless these days, but the same thing.)
When my own father died, my anti-gun mother wanted to be fair. So we started splitting them up. I got the two of family value and then told my brother to take the rest. He took after mom and was also anti gun. When my wife's father died, she got most of them to keep them away from my worthless nephew. So I did the smart thing, I gave them away to our sons. Easy, they wanted them, I didn't, I've got less to care for.
So in the upcoming event when I croak, I have no really guns with strong family meaning. Some with significant value. My instructions, which I kind of expect my wife to ignore, is to just call David Carroll and have him stop up. I trust him and have seen him liquidate other collections. While my goal would be for him to get as much for her as he can if she does it some other way, she's the one losing out. I even yield to her idea of getting something to remember old dad by. Give them the ones he doesn't think he can sell! If the attraction is that the gun was owned by dear old dad, all of "my" guns have been that.
Other stuff can be viewed the same. We go to antique shows and spend money on things we like. The total can be staggering, but with little hope of ever recovering the money, or at least without a lot of effort. Same as the guns. Yeah, my things kind of own me, and I love it. When it gets tiring, I'll dump them.