Many good loads . First lets figure out just what you want ie hunting , casual plinking , self defense etc . Once thats done pick a bullet thats suitable for your intended purpose . Same with powders again depends on what you want to do . Tell us all that & we can help better . I'll tell you a little what I do with 357 .
I cast & shoot a good bit of my own . I mainly save jacketed for my CF rifles . For casual plinking a med fast like W231 , Unique / Herco , True Blue , Acc #5 , N340 will work & be more cost effective for lower power loads . For general field use / pests a med burner like Blue Dot , Silhouette / WSF , Acc #7 , N350 . For top velocity hunting H110 / W296 , MP 300 , 2400 , Enforcer / 4100 , Acc #9 .
Bullets in revolvers for pests I use LY 358439 when pushed hard is explosive varmit load . More penetration either the Keith 358429 , 358156 , hunting the LBT 160 WFNGC .
In a rifle / carbine the extra speed makes most 158 JHP's too explosive . I like the 180's either a good JHP or a WFNGC as they kill better @ 1700fps than 1100 from a revolver . Personally I limit my shots to 50yds pistol , 75yds with a long gun .