"Hell my mother in law used to have ashtrays that matched her good china that were placed at the place settings of the family members that smoked."
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One of my many shortcomings is that I don't care for alcohol in any form. But I wanted to comment on the above - I've never smoked tobacco, but I also never saw my mother or brother awake without a cigarette in hand. I like seeing old movies where every adult is smoking, but I don't know exactly why I like that. Nostalgia maybe.
I do like being able to eat without smelling other peoples smokes. A lot of people in my area still smoke, and that's none of my business, but I really wish they'd quit flinging their butts out of their cars. I don't know if cars don't have ashtrays, or people have changed. My brother and I used to argue about who's turn it was to empty out the ashtray in my mother's car when it was full - we both wanted to do it.