I believe you guys are searching for something that isn't there.
Just pointing out that what's usual or normal changes and the outliers stick out. As far as the whole grey man idea vis a vis guns, if you feel that's best for your situation, by all means go for it. But I personally have converted 2 families of anti-gunners into avid shooters simply by talking about my hobby. The guns are locked up. And they aren't the only thing that people would like to steal. The tools alone! Much less the 5 tvs, 2 computers, cameras, binoculars, spotting scopes, radio equipment, motorcycle and hell, even prescription drugs. But I don't avoid conversations or tell people that I live in a cave with nothing but a blanket because I'm afraid they're gonna come for it. JMO and YMMV.
