I've carried a Smith M-36 or 60 for the past 35+ years; sometimes daily as a non-LEO, on a remote home site, and more lately whenever we venture into town or the city. I've practiced extensively here on our farm, over the decades, almost on a daily basis, and also taught my wife to shoot both guns. When carrying, we're loaded up with GDHP's at 135 grains, and practice with my own reloaded LSWC's, 158 grains at roughly 800 fps...that's the recoil equivalent of the Speer HPGD load. Both of us are thoroughly familiar and comfortable with them.
All that said...I've been won over to Sig's P365 as a better CC option. On initial trial, I was utterly surprised to find how accurate it was, even in my relatively unfamiliar hands. I found it a lot easier to get good hits out to 25 yds than my long familiar 3" bbl'd J frame Smiths. For a shooter that's willing to accept the more complicated manual of arms, it's a better choice IMHO...Too, the sights are far better...both front and rear are tritium, & the front sports that big, really BIG, green dot....terrific in daylight and dusk conditions. And it's increased capacity is a definite plus, goes without saying.
While my wife still prefers either of the J frames, for their simpler operation and her long familiarity over the yearsl me....I more often buckle on the Sig now, but still have a soft spot in my heart for the long years with the revolvers.
Best regards, Rod