Congratulations on a new addition
I have several 940s, they are always a conversation even starter around S&W enthusiasts
While this older picture shows my first 940 loaded with some original Ranger SXT (Black Talon in brass cases), I have opened up the cylinders on some of my 940s so that they may also shoot 9x21, 38ACP or 38SUPER
A 940 loaded with 38SUPER is a great package and since auto loader cartridges headspace on the moon clip in a revolver, the firearm can still shoot everything down to and including 380 ACP
357 Magnum ammunition still delivers several hundred feet per second of additional velocity over 9MM +P+ of similar weight, a good 25% or so velocity increase. That equates to a significant energy increase. If all you shoot is paper, that extra power does not mean much. If you might be facing a hostile assailant behind a door or windshield that extra power could mean everything.
I have many additional snubbies in the training inventory including J-Magnums
You will find when it comes to carry, that the shorts still prefer a 442/642 or a 340. The stainless guns swing too much.
Recently I lucked into some Performance Center 940 Specials. These are also known as the Pocket Rocket. These are 2" revolvers with the Power Port (Single exxpansion chamber compensator). The Performance Center 940 Specials are chambered for 356TSW.
The 356TSW operates at 50,000 PSI (15,000 PSI above 9MM) and gives 357 Magnum performance to this short cartridge. The 147 Federal Hydrashok moves out over 1200 FPS from the snubbies.
Muzzle Flash is a non-issue in self defense firearms if you are carrying one of the premium defense loads from the major manufacturers, they contain flash suppressant. Most muzzle flash comments come from people that are shooting inexpensive white/green/yellow box, foreign, boutique ammunition or hand loads. To save money cheap ammo does not include flash suppressant and neither does the powders available to hand loaders.
357 Magnum or 356TSW in a J-frame is not for everybody. There is nothing wrong if you cannot handle it, you should know your limitations. What I never understood is why so many people that can not it handle want to talk everyone out of trying it for themselves or try to justify why the increased performance does not matter.