How we get from a simple Field Strip to monkeying with the Ejector Rod I do NOT understand. Lucien, the Ejector Rod features an Extra Fine Pitch thread and really shouldn't be fooled with by someone who isn't a Gunsmith. Because it is EXTREMLY easy to cross thread once you take it apart completely. To be blunt, if it's not loose do NOT do anything with this assembly. If it is loose use some old worn out leather belt and some pliers to pinch the knurled end, insert some fired cases into the chambers, and then use one hand to tighten the cylinder assembly very firmly on the ejector rod while using those pliers and that leather belt to keep the ejector rod from spinning. Note, this is a left hand thread so to tighten turn it backwards.
Field Stripping a S&W Revolver
This is actually very simple. The shaft for the Yoke is retained by the Yoke Screw which is located at the front extension of the Side Plate under the cylinder just behind the Made in USA stamp on the right side of the frame in English and Spanish.
First remove this screw which features a standard Right Hand Thread. Note, a properly fitted screwdriver should be used for this. Also this screw does NOT need to be tightened super tight, it should only be tightened enough that it won't shoot loose and I would suggest taking a fitted screwdriver to the range until you learn how tight is enough to keep it from shooting loose. Because tightening it too tight will only lead to problems in the future and buggering up the screw head because you'll find you remove it for every cleaning to make cleaning easier. I'll also note that this screw features a 4MM thread and a spring loaded tip and this design is specific to revolvers made after 1989. Designs prior to this date used a dog point screw with a fixed tip and a smaller thread diameter.
Once the yoke screw has been removed open up the cylinder assembly, grasp the cylinder and frame with the left hand and slide the Yoke forward out of the frame and cylinder completely. Note, you do this so that there isn't any potential of rubbing the cylinder against the frame by sliding out the cylinder and yoke together. If you are careful about positioning the cylinder so it clears the frame you can slide the cylinder and yoke out together.
RE-assembly is the reverse of the above two steps.