I'm a little surprised at your post, considering I've had trouble finding anything my SW40VE won't shoot.
I use the 180 Speer Gold Dot, but I'm sure there are others that work as well.
I shoot mostly handloads on the range, and the SW40VE digests anything from 150 to 180 power factor, with lead, plated, or jacketed bullets with boring (and reassuring) monotony.
I have gotten one bad magazine which was slightly out of spec on the slot for the catch (magazine sat low), and it had some feeding problems. S&W replaced the magazine immediately without charge.