Borderline personality Disorder?

[DeathGrip]

I'll make this simple.Run!!!But you all ready know that.
I went through a few crazies myself and It took me over 40 years to find the right one or should I say she found me.I had given up on the dating scene and immersed myself in work and bettering myself.Little did I know that I had become more of a "catch".So when my wife met me she knew what I was about and wouldn't let me go.I'm a happy guy now.Lesson,You have to love yourself to catch the right one.

Best of luck,D.G.

 

[Oscar Zulu]

Thanks for all the replys. I didn't think my situation would generate so much interest. So I guess go with my gut and let true love overcome any minor negative issues?
Seriously, I know what I have to do. I am already a better man for the experience....on a lot of different levels. It is just going to be tough to watch (from a distance, small town, can't isolate totally) what should have been a promising life self destruct. I have grown more in the last seven months than I have in the last 15 years, and finally feel ready for marriage and family. Thanks again
OZ

 

[BarbC]

It is just going to be tough to watch (from a distance, small town, can't isolate totally) what should have been a promising life self destruct.

And every time you will think with relief, "Dodged that bullet!"

Perhaps she will get the help she needs when she realizes her own actions are preventing her own happiness.

 

[palmetto99]

Years after my father passed away, I believe that he was bipolar. Months of manic activity followed by several years of low. Made life hard as a kid.

 

[venomballistics]

Thanks for all the replys. I didn't think my situation would generate so much interest.

dude ... every last one of us either walked that long road personally or at least seen why they have earned the name "bombshells" as they tore up a friends world.
We'd rather see a man bring a knife to a gun fight than hook up with one of those.
the gun fight is far more merciful

 

[Dan M]

I had a good friend of mine tell me after my 2nd divorce "Your picker is broke" LOL boy was he right.

My Theory

Humans are like Elk, They congregrate in huge herds and try and get along together as a group, But there always a few that just can't cut the grade of the group, and they are what we call culls.

I've come to figure out that If they are 30 or 40 or 50 and they are still available, there is a reason for it (this applies to men and women). Now dont get me wrong there are good people out there that dont deserve this tag next to their names but I have always looked hard when trying to figure out if my picker is still Broke.

my .02 cents

Devoted Bachelor

Dan

 

[three-five-seven]

I have been married and divorced. I see my ex years later (we have kids) and I am glad we are apart. She wailed on her 2nd husband (current) and has beaten him financially, emotionally and mentally. Too bad for him.

I also got back together last year for a brief time with a former love (she called me- WOW this great) and it certainly was not. If there are problems before they will only get magnified after marriage. Get over it and let God? put you together with the right one if its ever to be.

Life is too difficult at times why purposely add to lifes headaches. GEt a woman who will work with you and get along. In the meantime enjoy life and collect and shoot Smiths or whatever you like.