I read the whole thread, and I'm the proud owner of a .38/9mm K frame conversion. And I really don't get why someone would bother with this sort of thing in a J frame. I understand that it is neato, and I see the ballistic argument. But they make .357 and .38 +P defense loads that should get you there - and they hurt enough in a really light revolver.
A five shot .38 may not be a cannon, but most folks would acknowledge that it is probably good enough. And if you like revolvers and like super light weight, an ultralight with .38 standard pressure seems like a reasonable compromise.
But if that isn't good enough, I just can't see the argument against just spending $450 on a Kahr CM-9 and being able to fire 7 rounds of hot 9mm from a platform with relatively little painful kick and accuracy similar to a J frame while being notably smaller. But maybe I'm looking at autos as being reliable enough and not convinced revolvers - especially ones fired much with heavy kicking ammo - are going to be any more reliable. (Bullet jump especially considered.)
It is pretty amazing what a revolver can be called on to do. But if you can't fire the gun more than a handful of rounds before your hand is numb, you're not really setting yourself up to fight with confidence. So most of this just seems like exotica rather than practicality.