Getting married....Again

[G-Mac]

If I ever got divorced, even once, I don't think I'd get married again. But, I wish you the best!

Edit...just read your last post. Sorry for the loss of your father-in-law.

 

[rwsmith]

Congratulations.....

I have a good feeling about this one.

 

[JET4]

Prayers for her and the family

 

[usmc2427765]

I had a LEO partner one time that married the same woman 3 times. I asked him why and he replied" she can't cook, clean house, wash clothes or any other household chores but the one thing she does really, really well makes up for all that other stuff.

 

[Old 44 Guy]

Good luck 29. This sounds like a good one. All the weddings I now attend are for my grandkids, wish my wife was alive to see it.

 

[fishwishin]

Quite a few parallels between you and I 29. My wife and I were also married on 8/22/20 (my 3rd, her 2nd). My mom got very sick the last week of December and on January 1st she was diagnosed with Covid. We lost her on January 8th. At the same time as she was getting sick my wife's parents both came down with Covid. Mother in law pulled through the Covid just fine, but her dementia really ramped up. Father in law was touch and go, but he is going to make it now.

The big challenge now is transitioning mother in law back home this week. She had to go into a rehab facility for her dementia and to allow father in law enough time to get some strength back. She comes home on Wednesday and on Thursday my wife and I will be inbound to Phoenix to help with the transition and get a lay of the land for what future services might be needed for her.

My condolences to you and your family for your loss.

 

[BigBill]

If you found the woman of your dreams consider yourself a lucky man. Congrats, godbless.

 

[pharman]

Brother-in-law married 5 times!

Brother-in-law is on marriage #5...each time he said "this is the one I know it"...his name happens to be Frank...I call him Frank Sinatra...

 

[johnbeaver]

Sorry to hear about your FIL. Hope the family is doing ok.
Congratulations on the marriage.
Reading through the thread reminded me of a lady that used to work for us. She was on her fourth husband.
And she couldn't understand why none of her ex-husbands had ever remarried.

 

[Foxman32]

I have replied to this post earlier and wish all the best to this couple! Now I want to say that I met my soul mate and I want to ask her to marry me. I don't know how you decided to do it three !! times. I am very worried that my beloved will refuse me

 

[S42N8]

Prayers for you and your family.

 

[jaguargolf]

Best of luck, long life and good health to the both of you

 

[29aholic]

I have replied to this post earlier and wish all the best to this couple! Now I want to say that I met my soul mate and I want to ask her to marry me. I don't know how you decided to do it three !! times. I am very worried that my beloved will refuse me

First and foremost make sure you are getting married for the right reasons. We became (and we both insisted on it) that we made sure we were friends before anything else. We concentrated on ensuring we were compatible in every day normal things and did not play the lonely hearts club card. It has been over a year now and the friendship just keeps getting better. We communicate constantly about everything and it's working famously.

 

[steelslaver]

If you've done it once, I can't imagine doing it again.

I have been Married 5 times. I figured it out and got it right the third time. We had over 25 great years before she passed. Found # 4 a few years later and we had a bit over 2 years before she too passed. Number 5 and I are doing fine.

 

[BC38]

First and foremost make sure you are getting married for the right reasons. We became (and we both insisted on it) that we made sure we were friends before anything else. We concentrated on ensuring we were compatible in every day normal things and did not play the lonely hearts club card. It has been over a year now and the friendship just keeps getting better. We communicate constantly about everything and it's working famously.

EXCELLENT!
One thing I remember from the pre-mariltal counseling we went through.
"It is less about FINDING the right person and more about BEING the right person."
Its worked for 35 years so far.

 

[03hemi]

Congratulations, man was not designed to go through life alone.
33+ years here.

 

[Ron IL]

This past January was 52 for us. I started dating her in the 8th grade. We both say that we wouldn't trade us for anything but don't want another one. She doesn't shoot but when I am wandering around the house bored she will say why don't you go to the range. Great woman. I wouldn't trade her for anything.

 

[MRB1]

Just celebrated 56 years with my love. There's a good chance the marriage will work - contrary to what other people thought.

 

[29aholic]

I had a client come in the other day. He explained how he was able to stay married 50 years. He told me "My wife told me when we got married she would never be a divorcee, but she didn't have a problem being a widow"

 

[Ogandydancer]

Hope it is a great one for you! All best wishes.