I’m not sure people that don’t have arthritis really understand what it’s like. It’s not just strength in your grip, it’s piercing pain in your joints that prevent applying the strength you do have to accomplish what you’re trying To do. I describe it like someone driving a spike through your joints.
I have good days and bad. The bad are really bad and the good I can function pretty well. One thing I’ve learned though is not to abuse those joints on the good days because you’ll pay for it the next day.
I only shoot larger calibers with mild loads in heavier frame guns. 22 in a frame is fine and 32 long in an ally frame with mild loads works. I’ve experimented extensively with bullets, powder and loads to come up with 38 special rounds I can manage in a steel frame revolver. With my loads I can ever shoot them in a steel frame snub nose Colt Cobra or a K frame snubby Smith. Heavier frames aren’t a problem but airweight like the 442 or 642 are torture and I pay for it for days. I traded my 442 for a Beretta 84 and. Traded my nickel 37 for a 32 Colt Cobra.
I only shoot the lightest magnums in my heaviest frame revolvers and only shoot a few at a time. It just not worth the pain. I can still rack my 1911’s on good days but recoil even in my steel frame 1911’s is becoming an issue. We’ll see, time will tell.
Best of luck and hope you find a good solution for you.