Like RichCapeCod said, the Gun Belt is every bit as important as the holster. That said, trying other people's IWB might help, but it took me nearly a year before I liked my choice of the horse hide IWB by Galco that is called the Guardian. Its got to be about 15 year old now and fits the steel Bodyguard and myself like I was born with it. All bodies are different, I'm 5'6" tall at 135lb and this combo rides comfortably just forward of my watch pocket.
Don't forget the Barami Grip which can make a J-frame disappear behind the belt.
Don't forget the Barami Grip which can make a J-frame disappear behind the belt.