I have just found out that my shiny parts are really just polished and that the nickel plating was actually removed. Someone suggested that I put a drop of cold blue on one of the parts and see if it "Takes". Well it did get blued, and I understand that if it was nickel plated then it would have just repelled the cold blue. So I guess the parts are just highly polished. Now to figure out how to make them look 'natural' again. I am thinking possibly some kind of sand paper or crocus cloth, but what grit?
I am not real fond of sandpaper and metal, but if I were going to sand, I would start with 1500 grit, and work up to 3000. I believe Walmart has this and any auto paint store will have it. You will get a polished finish
There is always a buffing wheel and jewelers rouge