BarbC
Member
I am a Senior Citizen. That gives me a lot more latitude when it comes to self defense than the young guys do. Somebody here had a sig line that said: "Don't mess with an old man. If he can't fight, he'll just kill you." And that's exactly what will happen. I don't go looking for problems, and will just walk away. Don't even THINK of following me.
Most women are in the same position. There is already an unequal force (or whatever the term is that escapes me at the moment). If I cannot get away clean (that is, without an attack upon me), I'm not giving the assailant the luxury of increasing levels of force to persuade him. I'm not negotiating like that. If the situation is at the point where I need to stop the threat, that's exactly what I will do as unequivocally as possible.
I'm not saying this from a "macho" angle but a realistic one. Somewhere on the forum is the posting about the rapist who came back for seconds and she shot & killed him. They came back to get you if they think you let them get away with it the first time, and this time they're bolder and angrier.