Yet another family heirloom is my father-in-law's 4" M&P. He bought it new in 1920, and carried it daily in the hip pocket of his "uniform" for 60+ years. As a dairy farmer, his "uniform" was bib overalls. He never said why he carried it, but he sure could shoot it.
I was visiting long before he became my father-in-law, and took advantage of the fact you could buy a gun in Georgia once you'd passed your 18th birthday. Georgia's just a hop, skip and a jump down the road from the farm, and I returned with a shiny new K-22----ready, willing and able to clean his clock in a shooting contest.
He held his gun all wrong, stood all wrong, and did everything else all wrong; but it turned out I was the one who got his clock cleaned. He just smiled.
It was several years later that I heard about being aware of an old man with a gun----because he probably knows how to use it. I'd already learned that lesson!
Ralph Tremaine