Hardness has little to do with leading whereas the proper fit everything to do with it.
Roger that!!
This notion requiring hardness/velocity matching has gained a lot of traction the last few years, mostly based on a document written by of couple of fellows on the left coast. However, if you look at this document, you see that it states that overly hard cast bullets "can[ or may] cause excessive leading". Note that it does not say "
WILL CAUSE EXCESSIVE LEADING". These folks are highly educated individuals and I submit that the verbiage is the way it is for a reason. In technical documents, words have specific meanings and those who develop and write these said documents understand this.
BHN 10 bullets will be just fine IF the bullets are sized and lubricated correctly and your gun has no hidden issues such as a rough or copper fouled bore, barrel groove diameter to cylinder throat dimension mismatches. Even Marlin Microgroove rifling can be be an issue with cast bullets. In the case of the Microgroove rifling, I have doubts about BHN 10 alloy bullets having sufficient structural strength be be engraved correctly at rifle velocities though conventional style rifling should not present a problem out to 1,600 FPS. Stating a hardness is a left handed way of alluding to alloy strength. It is commonly used jargon used by cast bullet shooters by the way.
As far as things being complicated, follow the K.I.S.S axiom when dealing with cast bullets. Know this, cast bullets can be unnecessarily hard but almost invariably never too hard PROVIDED said bullets are both sized and lubricated correctly. Worry a lot less about matching BHN numbers to velocity and control what you can control most easily-size and lubrication.
Size is absolute king.
Bruce
P.S.
An absolutely priceless reference resource is the now long out of print NRA Cast Bullet handbook and any attached supplements. Expend some energy if possible and try to locate a copy. It's written by the NRA's Technical Committee and has as much and probably more detailed information than either the Lyman or RCBS Cast Bullet Manuals.