Pisgah
Member
Regardless of the style, the grips that will make recoil manageable for you are the ones that fit your hand best. My hands are medium-sized, with fingers perhaps a bit shorter than the average. For me, the absolutely unbeatable Magnum N-frame grips are the standard service grips plus a Tyler T-grip. The fact that my grasp is absolutely optimal takes away recoil as a factor.