I’ve been down this road with the Wife. She WILL NOT carry IWB or AIWB-period. So, what works in her Patagonia Pants with small front slash pockets best is a Baby Browning in a pocket holster. A Beretta Jetfire is too hard to cock & too thick for NPE. A .25 is underrated caliber IMO and allows her to “have a gun”. She also has small hands, so the size is small, but it works for her Sz Sm Women’s hands. A Bauer .25 would work too. But, the BB’s just tend to work if cleaned & lubed properly- Bauer’s are hit or miss. For a load, the S&B 50gr FMJ does the trick. It’s no gun at all, or this: I pick this.