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I had a stroke...still can't hardly believe it.

I haven't stepped foot into my sixth decade yet. Blood pressure is a bit high but easily treated to very good levels. Cholesterol is OK without treatment. I have arthritis and some back issues (I usually use a cane)that require painkillers, and oh yeah, could stand to lose 40 pounds or so (on a 6'3 frame).

I had a stroke. One perfectly normal morning I got out of bed and headed for the washroom. I noted that my right hand seemed to be a bit out of sorts....seemed a bit sloppy in handling the cane...must have slept on it wrong, maybe a bit numb or clumsy? More than that - that right hand seemed a bit disconnected, not handling the cane well at all. Instead of leading the way, it seemed that cane was falling behind...very strange. Began to seem like I was watching a videotape of my own hand without actually feeling it. Stubbornly tried to shake it off. Ignoring it doesn't seem to work...

OK, something is wrong. I made it to the living room to explain my problem to my wife. Words would NOT form into sentences. I could HEAR gibberish, but that couldn't be me? Here or there a proper word or phrase might pop out...but NOT what I wanted. By now, I wanted to say one thing: "Call 911!", but nothing like that was coming out. By now, my wife was really wondering...and I could begin to see the first hint of panic in her eyes. She tried a test phrase or two, then finally understood my weak pantomime and made the call..

What to do...I was having a stroke...I knew it and was aware of it. I crunched a couple baby aspirin waiting for the EMT's. I got a seriously quick ride to the local hospital...got a few critical meds flowing, then off on another ride (this time about 75 miles) to the next hospital. After about 2 1/2 days in hospital, I came home.

NO remaining symptoms or issues. NO indication on any scan of scarring or any physical damage to the brain. Back to doing everything I was doing before.

I had a stroke - but it was NOT a life-changing affair, at least partially because my wife and I recognized the symptoms and reacted accordingly..
- check the person's FACE for any signs of drooping or changes
to one side, make them smile and show their teeth.
- have them raise both ARMS and try to hold both at the same level.
- check SPEECH, have them recite simple and familiar names and phrases.
-TREAT: call 911! Do NOT delay!

As they say...if even one person reviews this with family...
 
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A few months ago I posted an almost carbon copy of your story about my brother (57).

He was doing laundry, dropped a sock, bent over to pick it up and his hand wouldn't grasp it. Like you, he tried to speak and couldn't understand what was coming out.

He grabbed his cell phone, went upstairs to where his wife was, laid the phone in front of her and pushed 911. She took it from there.

Later, it was determined that he had a mini stroke and returned to normal. He is doing fine.

We have a family history of stroke and heart disease (it has caught up with me) so we all know and look for the signs.

I'm glad it turned out well for you as my dad never did recover his ability to speak.
 
I suffered a similar event at the age of 65. Took a shower to get ready for work and felt dizzy. Sat down to relax thinking it would go away. I was watching the stock market report and I couldn't remember what I read before it ran off screen. Then my eyes got so blurry that I couldn't focus at all. Kept thinking it would go away. Eventually called in to work because there was no way I could drive. As luck would have it, a retired Army medic answered the phone. He says," you're having a stroke, I'm calling an ambulance". The EMTs asked me a couple of questions which I couldn't answer. Loaded me up and hauled me to a trauma center that only treats strokes and heart attacks. Immediate treatment and like you no after effects. Just lucky as I was living all alone since my wife had passed. A quick thinking medic saved my bacon.
 
Glad your home and on the recovery steps.Strokes have no age limit. Time is never on folks side that fall Victim. Glad you had a rapid reponse team on your side. Stay well
 
You and your wife exercised the best of situational awareness. It is a key to survival. Glad to hear that no permanent damage was incurred. Hope all goes well in the future.
 
My son had a stroke 4 1/2 yrs ago at 36. With a lot of work, he is doing so well he finished the Boston Marathon this past March. Turned 40 today, says he's in the best shape in 15 yrs. As his Dad I am so freaking proud of him and his wife


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I'm glad you've pulled through in good shape. I appreciate you sharing what happened, what to look for, and what to do when a stroke occurs. And while strokes are more likely to happen to us geezers, as wingriderz reminds us:

Strokes have no age limit.

My youngest daughter had a good friend who had a stroke in her early 20s, so this thread is good info for all of us.
 
Two of my friends stroked in their early 40s.Both had seemed perfectly healthy before that.One has recovered nicely (bad genes)The other made it to 60,but it was his lifestyle that caused the first and it had done a lot of damage.Thank God we have the ability to treat this!
 
I had a stroke...still can't hardly believe it.

I haven't stepped foot into my sixth decade yet. Blood pressure is a bit high but easily treated to very good levels. Cholesterol is OK without treatment. I have arthritis and some back issues (I usually use a cane)that require painkillers, and oh yeah, could stand to lose 40 pounds or so (on a 6'3 frame).

I had a stroke. One perfectly normal morning I got out of bed and headed for the washroom. I noted that my right hand seemed to be a bit out of sorts....seemed a bit sloppy in handling the cane...must have slept on it wrong, maybe a bit numb or clumsy? More than that - that right hand seemed a bit disconnected, not handling the cane well at all. Instead of leading the way, it seemed that cane was falling behind...very strange. Began to seem like I was watching a videotape of my own hand without actually feeling it. Stubbornly tried to shake it off. Ignoring it doesn't seem to work...

OK, something is wrong. I made it to the living room to explain my problem to my wife. Words would NOT form into sentences. I could HEAR gibberish, but that couldn't be me? Here or there a proper word or phrase might pop out...but NOT what I wanted. By now, I wanted to say one thing: "Call 911!", but nothing like that was coming out. By now, my wife was really wondering...and I could begin to see the first hint of panic in her eyes. She tried a test phrase or two, then finally understood my weak pantomime and made the call..

What to do...I was having a stroke...I knew it and was aware of it. I crunched a couple baby aspirin waiting for the EMT's. I got a seriously quick ride to the local hospital...got a few critical meds flowing, then off on another ride (this time about 75 miles) to the next hospital. After about 2 1/2 days in hospital, I came home.

NO remaining symptoms or issues. NO indication on any scan of scarring or any physical damage to the brain. Back to doing everything I was doing before.

I had a stroke - but it was NOT a life-changing affair, at least partially because my wife and I recognized the symptoms and reacted accordingly..
- check the person's FACE for any signs of drooping or changes
to one side, make them smile and show their teeth.
- have them raise both ARMS and try to hold both at the same level.
- check SPEECH, have them recite simple and familiar names and phrases.
-TREAT: call 911! Do NOT delay!

As they say...if even one person reviews this with family...
Great advice!
F (ace)
A (rms)
S (peech)
T (reat). -- call 911

Remember FAST!
Speed in treatment counts big time!
 
Glad you're OK. Strokes and heart attacks for that matter, are typically caused by a blood clot that breaks loose from wherever it formed, and traveled through the blood stream until it came to a vein it can't get through and thus causes loss of blood flow to that section. That's why they tell you to take an aspirin, to help thin the blood and get past the clot.

As we get older, we tend to bruise more easily because our veins are weaker. If there's a bruise, there's a clot, or several.

Growing old ain't for sissies. :D
 
Thanks for the kind replies, and the similar experiences that have been noted...

One additional thing to note: We are all human beings, and often suffer from being embarrassed when in fact we need help. When I was being questioned (by my wife, then EMT's, and finally nurses and doctors) by those who were trying to diagnose what I was aware of, I became embarrassed by not knowing the answers to such simple questions... I found myself muttering, changing the subject, rolling my eyes, anything to prove I wasn't stupid. Be PERSISTENT with a victim, and make sure you get an accurate idea of what is going on with that person. I think of hearing about choking victims in restaurants who try to avoid creating "a scene", and retreat to a restroom, where they may end up unconscious (or worse). Our embarrassment can lead us to make foolish choices!

A final note about being in the hospital - (the food is awful, any real rest is impossible due to constant interruptions, test after test, one needle stick after another, the total eclipse of one's dignity, etc., etc.). And yet, I find that there always seem to be nurses who manage to deal with (I imagine) any and every kind of ill-mannered patients imaginable...and still manage to bring a smile and genuine concern for those complete strangers in their care. I tip my hat to those who have chosen such a demanding career and provide such an outstanding and valuable service!!
 
What to do...I was having a stroke...I knew it and was aware of it. I crunched a couple baby aspirin waiting for the EMT's.

As they say...if even one person reviews this with family...

Glad to hear that you are ok, but please, do not, I repeat do NOT ever take aspirin, if you think you are having a stoke!

While the majority (approx. 87%) of strokes are Ischemic (think a clot), the other approx. 13% are Hemorrhagic (bleeding) and if I remember correctly, those 13% (Hemorrhagic) result in approx. 40% of all stroke deaths, and aspirin can make them worse.

In the Pre-Hospital (EMS) setting, this is why we do NOT give potential stroke victims aspirin, they must first have a CT scan at the hospital, to rule out a Hemorrhagic stroke.

But again, I am very glad to hear that you are doing well.
 
Glad the good Lord was looking your way. Take care going forward.
 
Here's some good reading on what you SHOULD do if you think you're having a stroke.......

If Someone is Having a Stroke 3 Things To Do and 3 Things Not To Do – Penn Medicine

Interesting! From the article:

"80% of strokes are ischemic ones, but if you're in that 20% and your stroke was caused by a ruptured blood vessel in the head, you don't want the victim to have aspirin," Jean says. "And you can't tell which one it is until you get to the emergency room and you get a CAT scan."

To be safe, don't give someone who has a stroke any medication.

It was brow beat into my brain to give the person an aspirin, but I see now where that may be a mistake.
 
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