Once upon a time I was recently arrived from Mars. I met a young girl from Venus and we got married. Shortly thereafter I discovered that I had to learn more about how girls from Venus talk. It was a challenge. After all, I was from Mars, and she was from Venus!
Slowly I learned. It was a process. When she said she wished we could one day buy a color TV, I thought I heard her say ... one day buy a color TV. So, when I found a nice Winchester 70 at a local bait and tackle shop, I bought it. She did tell me it was OK if that's what I really wanted. Later after language studies, ... Hebrew, Greek and Venus ... I began to understand what she had really been saying was that we needed to save money to buy the TV. Gee! Who'd have thought it!!! But, I learned. It was a process.
Now it is forty years later. I've bought and owned and shot and sold a boat load of guns. On a number of occasions she has been the one who has bought some of those rifles, pistols and lots of ammunition. And for my part, I've not again had to take remedial language classes so that I might better understand what that little girl from Venus means when she says ... wish ... maybe ... I'd like, etc. You know! Sincerely. bruce.