Wearing hats indoors

Okay, I'll admit it...I'm a hat guy. Not a cap! A hat!!! And usually one of quality beaver felt. It's been that way for the most part of my life and I'm too old to change my ways now.

As to hat etiquette, some folks were either never taught basic, common manners, or they're just too darned ignorant.

So, for the uninformed folks out there, here is what Emily Post has to say on the matter: :D

Men – Hats can be left on…

Outdoors
At athletic events (indoors or out)
On public transportation
In public buildings such as post offices, airports, and hotel or office lobbies
On elevators

Men – Take hats off, including baseball caps …

In someone's home
At mealtimes, at the table
While being introduced, indoors or out (unless it's frigid!)
In a house of worship, unless a hat or head covering is required
Indoors at work, especially in an office (unless required for the job)
In public buildings such as a school, library, courthouse, or town hall
In restaurants and coffee shops
At a movie or any indoor performance
When the national anthem is played
When the flag of the United States passes by, as in a parade.


Both my mother and my wife are sticklers when it comes to manners, so the law according to Emily Post is strictly adhered to here at the homestead. Hats come off when you walk in the door...or you face the consequences. (And believe me, it ain't pretty.):eek:
 
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I remember an episode of the Sopranos where Tony was at a nice restaurant and a young guy at a nearby table had his baseball cap on. After stewing about for a few minutes Tony went over and TOLD him to take it off. One look into Tony's eyes and he meekly caved and removed it. Great scene!

Where is Tony when you need him?
 
My mother would ask any offending hat wearer who entered our home if their head was cold. Most took the hint.

Another thing that chaps my *** is everyone watching our national colors pass during a parade and remain seated or flopped on the ground. GRRRR!

LTC
 
I was at dinner the other night. I had my hat on.
I was burping, farting and picking my nose at the table.
Sure, I may have spit on the floor a few times, but at least I did it underneath the table - it's not like anyone was gonna step in it.

Some guy across the room kept looking at me....
I wonder what the heck his problem was? :rolleyes: I wish people would just mind their business.



:D

People who chew, spit in a cup. :eek:
 
What is the problem with wearing a hat indoors. I don't do it, but I am thinking that I would like to wear my hat indoors as when I wear one my hair gets scarey crazy looking and I don't like having to hold that hat as I move around.
 
Help me out here..........

Being raised in the deep south, a man would always remove his hat when coming in from outdoors. Plain and simple.

But, I noticed when I lived out west (circa 1970's) all the gentleman wore western hats. I noticed that they did not remove their hats when coming in from the outdoors. They wore there hats indoors except when sitting at a dining table at a restaurant. It was not uncommon to see men with their western hats on when working at a desk or shopping in a retail store for example.

Is my observation correct?
 
Other than old outdated reasons for removing a hat.... why is it disrespectful?

It's only disrespectful because you say it is... because you were told it is... because your parents were told it is... It's a "rule" for the sake of being a rule.

Now, spitting on a man's shoes, that's disrespectful. Wearing a hat past the threshold, not all too disrespectful.
 
In my Army days you remained covered indoors when you were under arms.

Generally I wear a hat everywhere except home. In the winter, I wear it to keep my head warm and in the summer I wear it to keep my scalp from getting sunburned. I was also taught you didn't remove your cover when you were under arms. On the rare occasion I'm not carrying, I remove my hat indoors.

There are two times in a man's life when that is acceptable.

3. When the bill of the hat interferes with the sights of a rifle.

CW
 
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Other than old outdated reasons for removing a hat.... why is it disrespectful?

It's only disrespectful because you say it is... because you were told it is... because your parents were told it is... It's a "rule" for the sake of being a rule.

I read this entire thread and was planning to say exactly what's quoted above. MrJT beat me to it and I have to strongly agree with him.
I understand many people are deeply offended by improper hat etiquette. Well, ... it's just a hat.
At least I haven't heard rumor of a liberal led push for more restrictive hat legislation.
Protect your guns, protect your rights, protect your hat.
 
My son and his goofy girlfriend wear almost matching black hats with a brim, like Sinatra and all the guys back in the day used to wear. My dad wore hats like that back in the 50's and 60's, he was a salesman. His excuse was that he was bald and it was supposed to be a sales aid, I often used to wonder "what about honesty?" I've gotten tired of trying to get my son and his 30-sumpthing buddies to scrape their hats off while eating, but it falls on deaf ears. In my house, hats off, comb your hair before you leave the house son or you can eat on the back porch with the cat. My dad used to say stuff like people not feeling comfortable in your house to take their coat or hat off, don't come over if you ain't comfortable in my house...I keep the heat up and won't put you to work without feeding you.
 
That's what I was taught....

I was taught and I do it myself. But I have to ask why? What does it mean? Is it some medieval thing? Maybe it meant you were staying for supper. Is this an 'important' tradition? I was born in the South in the mid 50's and gentlemanly behavior is second nature. I love getting cussed out by women for holding doors for them because they don't know I hold doors for everybody. It's one of those things that doesn't cost me a thing.:)
 
Other than old outdated reasons for removing a hat.... why is it disrespectful?

It's only disrespectful because you say it is... because you were told it is... because your parents were told it is... It's a "rule" for the sake of being a rule.

Just curious--would you say the same about shaking hands, or saying "please" and "thank you"? Refraining from texting while having dinner with friends in their home?

Most of these and other polite customs, showing respect for another person, developed as social lubricant, a way of making things go more smoothly because all concerned feel respected.

They seem to be increasingly ignored as "outmoded" by younger people; but when I treat a young person politely and respectfully it seems to be appreciated, even if only a little.
 
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