I bought a new Model 19 in 1980. Next I bought an RCBS Rockchucker press, dies, etc, and loaded up 500 cartridges using 125 grain jacketed bullets using data from the old Speer handbook (what could possibly go wrong?). I shot those up and then loaded another 500.
Somewhere though the second batch of ammo my gun suddenly locked up on me. I eventually got the cylinder open and discovered a cracked forcing cone. I had never heard of this before. I sent it back to S&W and they replaced the barrel under warranty, but it was the fault of my ammo, not the gun.
So, I learned two things. A Model 19 forcing cone can break, and there are no signs of pressure when working up a load for a 357 Magnum. If you ever do get sticky extraction, you are WAY over-pressure (my handloads extracted just fine).
I learned one more thing too, and that is the foolishness of shooting low pressure ammo for casual use, and then using (over?)max pressure ammo for self defense. If you are using a gun for self defense, do not use a load that can tie-up your gun when your life is depending on it.
I have a Model 66 from a year or two later, and that is working (not "running") just fine. I learned from my mistake, and have never shot light bullet, high pressure ammo through it.