THOTS ON CAT TRAINING
so far, i've found 3 methods that work :
VIOLENCE
yup, this works.
when someone tries to bite me or scratch me, they get whacked on the nose n yelled at.
i have only had to do this 4 times, in 2 years, so they learn fast.
since it's so seldom, they are not at all hand shy.
the problem with this is it must be instantaneous.
when cud ripped thru the screen to get in, a glass of water in the face would have taught him something,
but, by the time i got there, he was 6' into the house, so i could do nothing .
i don't do revenge.
i accept that cats act like cats.
BRIBERY
this works best.
when i call them in for curfew, they always come, because they always get a treat.
drifter has done this more than 800 times so it;s a habit.
she will come inside any time i call.
drifter would stand up on her hind legs n sing me a song if she thot she would get a treat.
unfortunately, i'm the problem. i don't know how to communicate that a reward will come if she does something.
TOUCHING
when i'm on the couch, drifter will come n stand on my legs n demand to be brushed, her fav thing,
i comply n after a brushing she naps between my legs.
this is as close to cuddling as she will allow.
drifter is still a wild animal that happens to live in the house.
cuddles will jump in my arms n get cuddled n brushed, after which he often falls asleep in my arms.
as i type this, drifter is asleep between my legs n cud is sleeping pressed to my chest.
today, this is very inconvenient because i have things to do, but i don't wanna disturb them.
i enjoy this cuddling as much as they do, but in the back of my mind, this is training.
it is important that they feel loved n comfy with me.
this training paid me big dividends.
one night, when it was very cold, both cats came n laid on my legs while i was in bed sleeping.
i really liked it. not just the warmth, but as they moved n their sleep, it was very comforting.
the next day, i racked my brains, trying to think of a way to train them to do this every night.
i couldn't think of any way to do this, but they came on my legs again n again.
every night they are on my legs as i sleep n it's great fun.
i now know they have been trained to do this by what we do on the couch.
they have come to think that being on me is pleasant, so they do it for fun.
anyway, that's how i train cats.
we learn this together.