BC38:
I felt the same way, until I had a chance to get one for a reasonable price. I really like mine, and you're right, it is heavy for what it does, but on the other hand, all that mass means you can shoot full power 357s all day without much fatigue, because the weight tames the recoil. And there is just something cool about them. All of my law enforcement career, before we went to semis, I carried a K frame 357, and I'm glad I did. An officer carries a lot of stuff besides the gun, so the weight savings is appreciated. But for just shooting, the big N frame is a real pleasure!! I don't think you'll regret buying it!!
Best Regards, Les