Thank you, 38-44hd45, for the kind reply and good ideas. I'm adding your holster recommendations to those I will check out shortly.
Thanks to everyone, as always, for the support and information.
I feel for you. A fire extinguisher is not out of place anywhere, so get one. A direct blast of CO2 will temporarily startle, choke, and blind an attacker. Then club said attacker with the body of the extinguisher until you can reach your handgun or another defensive item.
Believe it or not, getting onto the fire extinguisher idea was what led me to the hornet spray. I was actually going to get a fire extinguisher when I thought about hornet spray having a more directed stream and frankly, much easier post-incident clean-up. Fire extinguisher sure beats spray can for a striking weapon, however.
I've been hearing more and more lately that wasp spray - long strong stream - to be a very good alternative to pepper spray.
Thinking is how people would react to seeing pepper spray and don't think twice about wasp spray.
AND
If anyone does ask - a simple answer could be "I've had some wasp problems and keep it handy in case they come back".
As far as how damaging it is - I've only heard it's very effective in the face of a bad guy but nothing as to what's recommended for first aid or how bad the damage is. Hey, If situation is bad enough to need it I wouldn't' worry about THEM too much. THEY shouldn't have done whatever it was they did to make me use it.
This was my thinking, exactly. And no, I'm not worried about the bad guy at all. I'm not afraid of hurting them with hornet spray -- I want to know how much I
can hurt them with it.
I am sure you have an old DSM III laying around somewhere. open up a few pages, take a razor knife, and hollow out a spot for the small revolver to fit...leave it on the corner of your desk next to a spot you would retreat to if you had to retreat from your client....
no one is gonna steal an old DSM....
Hollowing out a book to hide a gun has been done since someone invented books I imagine..a large encyclopedia or other innocuous thick book would work as well....
hollowing out a book to hold a gun takes a while...and you might cut yourself, so be careful....ask me how I know
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or you could buy one
http://www.secretstoragebooks.com/
I laughed out loud when I saw this! It's so fitting and evil-in-a-good-way. I'm still laughing, and may actually do something like this.
This thread was never meant to be a mental exercise/experiment for me, but it turned into one. In addition to getting lots of ideas and good information, it caused me to really think about how I feel about self-defense, what limits I feel about it, and why. I concluded that I'm in a pretty decent place with it for the moment, meaning measures taken so far, and also measures not taken. There's a balance between living with maximum safety and living with maximum freedom/fulfillment/comfort/satisfaction/whatever, and we all have our own right place on that spectrum. My right place on the spectrum, for now at least, involves not wearing a gun on me when doing therapy. I don't like it, it feels wrong, and considering this thread for a day or two has helped me realize there's nothing wrong with that. It feels wrong enough to me that I prefer accepting the increased physical risk that potentially comes with the choice. I could, for example, turn my home into a barred fortress with security systems that keep me safe but make me feel like I live in a prison; I have elected not to do that because it's more important to me that it feels like a home than that it be the safest it could possibly be.
I've brought guns into my life to feel safer, and have changed a number of things (some specifically involving the guns) to support the "be safe" project. I am much, much safer now than before, but not as safe as it is possible to be. Because of info from this thread, there are more changes I will consider and some I will put into action. Some things will be left undone because doing them would start to turn my life into something I don't want it to be. There's more than one way to "save" your life, I'm seeing, and so I'm going for the best of both worlds.
Again, many, many thanks. I wish you all safety and peace.