So I signed up for one of those dating sites

From the ladies side........

I tried a couple of the sites. I decided most of the men were intimidated
by a self sufficient, pickup drivin', sports car lovin', gun totin', whiskey drinkin' redhead. And my dog didn't like any of them.

A lot of me are afraid of that, but some one is looking for you. I might have been myself before I found someone.

Just like the OP, some lady is looking for someone just like you.

Keep looking. Hey, its kind of like collecting guns. Half the fun is looking. Sometime after my wife my wife past, I started looking, met some interesting ladies that just didn't fit, still most of the time meeting someone and having dinner or something is at least interesting even if you figure out its not a fit. I got lucky and found someone. 3 years later she died. Super hurts, but life goes on. Married again and a happy camper.

Don't quit looking, don't sweat the small stuff unless they do and if they sweat small stuff move on. One thing about more mature people, most of them do have a little baggage, but many of them have figured out how to handle life.
 
I don't know.........I'm a old widower/codger too..Had a wife or two or three...Participated on the show, "How I met your Mom"...so I think I can state with some authority..


Women are like underwear...They should be changed at least once a week. (No offense Pawngal)

Don't soil the ones you got, or you won't be able to return them.

Having a good fitting set of drawers beats going without.

Having a good female companion, is one that doesn't mind going Dutch, that way you'll be able to find out if they're a gold digger or not.

A good match is also one, that I have the beer, she has the ice bucket. When the beer is finished, and the ice melted, then it's time to retreat to our respective places to recoupe.

WuzzFuzz
 
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I was divorced at 50 and got on some dating sites and I listed my interests as outdoor activities like hunting, camping, and bicycling. Women on other sites listed similar interests and we chatted online and I would say "so where do you like to go camping"? and she would say "I'm not really sure I haven't been since I was eleven". So I would say "so what type of bicycling do you like"? and she would say "I actually haven't owed a bike in 20 years". So what does she really like to do? Eat, shop, and spend money.
 
.... I decided most of the men were intimidated
by a self sufficient, pickup drivin', sports car lovin', gun totin', whiskey drinkin' redhead. And my dog didn't like any of them.

This, except for the redhead part,pretty much describes my wife.

I found myself single at 35, more than 20 years ago. I stumbled onto this gal, and ended up marrying her.

Some folks mistake her quiet self assurance for weakness. Woe to the fool when she drops the hammer.

Hardest working woman I've ever known, good looking too. No idea why she married me. I think I caught her in a weak moment.

The point being, I wasn't looking when I met her.
 
What a pain in the derrière!

I'm looking for a friend, not a life-long soul mate.

The site wanted me to "tell all," and it expected me to know "exactly" who I was looking for. I have no clue!

I'm 65 and single (obviously, and it's none of their business why), and how the heck do I know who I'd like to meet?

Worse, now -- thanks to Google, I'm sure -- I can't hop on any website without being presented with America's cleavage! It's disgusting (I can't imagine what a Lady who signs up for a dating site gets bombarded with -- the Chip 'n' Dale boys?).

I'm a simple guy, but I enjoy deep conversations with intelligent folks (probably why I hang out here, ya?). I love the opposite sex (don't take that the wrong way) -- far more interesting than most of you other guys (don't take that the wrong way, either), but, wow, do I need to be indoctrinated? Uh, no!

I have plenty of friends and acquaintances (gals and guys). I go for days (sometimes weeks) without seeing another human. I'm good with that, but I'd enjoy having a gal "friend" with whom I can "communicate." I'm finding I may never reach that goal, but, gosh, is it really that tough?

I'd appreciate knowing your thoughts.

Most sincerely,

Might be better off just chatting and looking for locals on here lol. I tried a couple dating sites when I was younger and not as smart, and I dated a couple girls for a while (one about a year that I got engaged to and broke it off) and I will say, most (not all) but most of the girls on there have some issue with getting or keeping men. The two girls I was with for a while were head cases- manipulative, wouldn't listen and wouldn't work with you on anything... That's just my experince. I know people who have met their spouses on those sites, and I guess at the time I was too. But, I ended up just giving up looking for almost 2 years, just hung out with buddies at car shows, went drag racing all the time, and then met my wife in my 6th year of college (no I'm not a doctor, I changed majors twice) when I was not looking.

Just having someone to talk to is key though, and I'm sure you're not necesarily looking for a mate at 65. I don't have great advice for you, but keep your chin up, and something will happen.
 
Listen, then when you open your mouth tell them what they want to hear. Many gals are looking for a buddy, some looking for more than a buddy.
 
Mail order Ukrainian/Russian Women!

But then some guys will whine that delivery service was not on time!:D

Heck I think there is a stupid TV show one now about this
 
From the ladies side........

I tried a couple of the sites. I decided most of the men were intimidated
by a self sufficient, pickup drivin', sports car lovin', gun totin', whiskey drinkin' redhead. And my dog didn't like any of them.

You can always trust your dogs instincts about people. I think it has to do with body language. That's pretty much how they roll.:D

Other than that I don't want to participate in this conversation. I've been married 3 times so nobody here needs my advice. ;)
 
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The "sugar daddy" syndrome works both ways.
I call it "looking for a nurse and a purse" No thanks.

I spent 6 years nursing my late hubby thru stage 4 cancer, kidney failure and dementia. I am not up to doing that again.
I am financally secure but I'm not gonna support a man

Sorry if I sound like a b****

Read post #33.
Should work for women too.
 
The "sugar daddy" syndrome works both ways.
I call it "looking for a nurse and a purse" No thanks.

I spent 6 years nursing my late hubby thru stage 4 cancer, kidney failure and dementia. I am not up to doing that again.
I am financally secure but I'm not gonna support a man

Sorry if I sound like a b****

Me too Pawngal....Took care of my Mrs. (Colon cancer)
Put me down for a been there, done that, got a T shirt.


On another note....Being at this age of a old codger, and dating a woman my age...I can pretty much tell what she'll look like when she gets older.:D

Now one of the types I pretty much stay away from, is this week's winner of the WalMart.... Dress for Success gals. Or one that if one was to get into any kind of lengthy endeavor, one would probably have to change the mattress every year, because it was sagging, more so on one side.:o

Another thing I look out for, is one that snores.

Now I believe in sharing, but not the cup for our teeth at night.:D


WuzzFuzz
 
REMEMBER,YOU ASKED FOR IT.

NOT looking for Ms Right. Just Ms Right NOW. :D Kidding aside, just put it simply, what you are & are not looking for. Back before Mrs NG a coworker put up an add without my knowledge/approval for me. "SWM seeking Amazon lady wrestler". :D I got a response & we dated for a while, until I couldn't take those splashes from the top rope anymore. :rolleyes:[/QUOT

Still got her number?

Hurt me! :eek: :D:D:D

An original BEAUTIFUL LADY OF WRESTLING: LADY DYNOMITE, 1-800-cry-uncle. :eek:
 

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