OK, I'll try to be respectful when answering this questing but I'll admit, you got my ire up.
I didn't think I saw ALL people telling me to carry strong side in this thread. I should maybe go back and look if that is really the case. So... using your logic I'm supposed to do whatever people have said here? I can't ask to figure out what good ideas are out there and make up my own mind and do what I feel is best for me?
AIWB has been recommended by people that seem to know a thing or two. I just put a link up in my last post to a well known snub revolver training guy who said he carries AIWB and ankle. AIWB seems to me to be common. An article written in the American Handgunner 2014 Special Edition Tactical Annual by a gentleman named Robert Kolesar recommends carrying a snubby AIWB. Which that article, incidentally, has a picture I took of my Colt Detective special. It's the biggest picture in the article and I'm infinitely proud of that.
I don't think you'd have to look real far for someone to consider AIWB a common, primary spot to carry a firearm. I had carried 4 oclock for several years after getting my CCW but recently changed and find it superior in a LOT of ways. For ME.
So, you're not sure why I asked. Aaaah, to learn? And if I'm doing something wrong, I'm more than willing to be challenged, think about it and change. I changed to AIWB because I find it better for me. And it was / is taught by some people that seem to know what they are talking about. If AIWB doesn't work for you, I've got no problem with that. I'm not sure why you have a problem with me carrying AIWB. I do learn from hearing and seeing what other people do. That seems pretty self explanatory. Obviously a good class taught by a trustworthy instructor would be the best place to learn something like this. But I didn't think it would be a bad thing to ask here.
Secondly, I thought I was clear in asking how people might employ a New York reload, regardless of where they are pulling their guns from. Although where you are wearing it might influence how you actually use the second gun. As is the case of an off hand pocket and using your support hand to employ it. But discussing those things was what I was after.
And lastly, since I'm trying to learn, can you recommend a good ankle holster for a J frame.
And since I'm getting it all out, you said why am I asking people's opinions since I didn't follow their advice about where to carry the primary". How in the earth was I supposed to change to what people said in this thread before getting the answers? If I have been doing something one way, and then asked questions here, you're telling me I didn't follow their advice to begin with. I just asked 2 days ago....... I'm confused..........
I admit, sometimes it takes me a while to see things in the proper perspective, so I apologize if my brain is in low gear. But your statements have me baffled. Now the part about ankle carrying, that I got. And does seem to be a suggestion worth looking into.
I get the impression that somewhere I offended you with my comments. I was not trying to be disrespectful to anyone and I'm sorry if my questions came across that way. And I'm guessing if I didn't offend you with those other ones I probably did now with this post. But it sure looks to me like you're expecting something from me that isn't there to be had. Like "following everyone's advice". That I just received.
OP: The first place to carry a second gun is on the ankle. More accessible when seated, accessible in an automobile. For a NY reload, pick what works for you, and practice. Your appendix carry is already not the most common, although there are many points in favor of it. It might be my first choice for third gun. You should pick one of the common choices for first gun. Not sure I even understand why you are asking everyone else's opinion on where to park your second gun, since you didn't follow their opinions on where to park your first one. Not saying you are wrong, at all, just wondering why you asked.