IMO, the issue is trying to load .38spl brass to .357mag pressures. Brass is made to be strong enough for the loads it's meant to contain, and different brands of brass may be stronger/thicker or weaker/thinner in different areas than others. In the case of .38spl, the SAAMI max pressure is 17K PSI, compared to .357mag which has a SAAMI max pressure of 35K PSI. Even if an ammunition company proofed it's brass to SAAMI max + 50% (which is probably way more than we can reasonably ask for) that would mean the best .38spl brass might be good to a max of 25.5K PSI, still 10K PSI under the 35K PSI max for .357mag. So, even hypothetically, the best .38spl brass isn't going to hold up to .357mag pressures. In addition, if you chose to cut .357mag brass down to .38spl length you would probably have to exceed the SAAMI max pressure for that brass to attain the same ballistics as the .357mag load you're trying to reproduce.
I don't see any safe way to get .357mag performance using .38spl brass, you simply cannot expect the cases to hold up. In fact, you should expect them to fail, and that's pretty dangerous stuff to be messing with.